A Favorite

Crawford Anchorage near Erasmus Island is probably our second favorite anchorage. With only a new moon and a very low dew point we stayed up late to enjoy the amazing star watching.

From Erasmus we can easily take our tender to Blind Channel and we went over to see if we could find our friends Helen & Jeff of the “Tortoise.” We shared stories and cocktails before returning to the True Love, still quietly anchored in our private bay. When we have the opportunity to anchor in a quiet place by ourselves, we take advantage of the solitude.

The stars were spectacular so we stayed up late, slept in and then headed track to Blind Channel to resupply.

Although the winds were very strong just a mile a way in Johnstone Strait, the glassy calm waters at our anchorage made for lovely kayaking and we circumnavigated the little island in about 30 minutes. Earlier I had given the Captain a needed hair cut and we even found some of his hair on the other side of the Island.

Inspired by the stars the night before I began campaigning for another late night photo shoot. I can’t take long exposure shots on the True Love because of all the movement. Getting star photos requires solid ground.

It’s not the Captain’s favorite job, but we scoped out a location to take a photo of part of the Milky Way. He rightfully worries that one of us may end up in the cold 51 degree water, in the dark. But, we took the tender to two locations and found a good landing for a late night photo shoot that he felt, at least somewhat comfortable with trying around midnight.

While exploring the Captain spotted a little eel in the tide pool.

So after a day of kayaking and a late dinner we watched the sun set, the stars appear and the Milky Way bloom in the sky. Then we loaded the equipment in the tender, and with head lamps and of course life vests we headed to the flat rock at the previously explored landing on the north side of the bay. The tide was a little higher than we expected so we docked in a slightly different place, but I was able to capture a pretty good star shot. Even with my macro star lens that I used to photograph the Aurora Borealis in Norway, I could not capture the entire Milky Way. It’s just too big. But we got some good shots, the adventure was thrilling and satisfying and safe.

Of course we slept in, enjoyed some more kayaking, but you guessed it! I was inspired by the first night to try again at another location. The True Love has some cool underwater lights we installed a few years ago and I thought they would add to another star photo. I also spotted a cool flat rock easily accessible and very near to our anchorage. So I convinced the Captain (I’m very persuasive) to investigate it during the day, and it looked doable so he agreed to give it a shot that night.

Then it was off to Campbell River for a 2 hour stop for some refueling, groceries, some spare parts at a marine store and a visit to Canadian Tire. Canadian Tire has almost everything (not just tires) anyone needs in life, except groceries. It’s well stocked, well staffed and we love it!

We docked at April Point, on the other side of Discovery Passage from Campbell River. The old resort there is in complete disrepair and closed, but the marina still exists and is a quiet little spot with beautiful views. The docks aren’t in great shape, but with power and water are good enough. We had multiple zoom meetings the next day and needed to make sure our trusty starlink works best when the boat is either underway or stationery at a dock (and not spinning around an anchor).

Because the resort is now closed the road to it makes for perfect bicycling through the forest. So we rode our e-bikes to get some fish & chips near the ferry, about 2 miles away. Then we scoped out the nearby bakery for the next morning. “Aroma” is a perfect local bakery filled with locals and visitors all enjoying the yummy baked goods.

Then it was off to Gorge Harbour about 20 miles away for a stop over to meet our friends Carmie and Dena before heading further south to the Beach Gardens Marina (near Powell River) for a couple of days on our way back to our summer moorage in Pender Harbour. Gorge Harbour used to have a restaurant but they had to take it down because it wasn’t structurally sound. We decided to anchor in the protected harbour. The wind kicked up and the“ anchor held fine but we spun around quite a bit and the sound of the wind driven waves on the boat was intense overnight.

Gorge Harbour has free yoga daily every morning at a large patio next to the marina and we enjoyed a wonderful class, before raising the anchor and heading south. Jim has been doing yoga regularly with me for about a year and now he’s absolutely fine in a class. The teacher said a couple of things that we especially liked. First she said, “yoga is all about breathing, and we are just going to do some movements around that breathing.” She also said to think of yourself as having two ways to focus your attention: outward (projecting) and inward (observing). Yoga is about calming your mind so that you can focus on your breathing and inner self while meditating in the moment (not thinking about the past or the future). It spoke to us. The hour class went by quickly.

So now it’s goodbye Desolation Sound as we head south.

After docking at the Beach Gardens Marina, we had a little water pump problem, but it was easily fixed. The tube next to the water pressure gauge fell off again so I decided to cut off the end of the old, dried-out tubing there and reattach it. So far this little fix seems to be doing the job. The whole project from discovery of the problem to a lasting solution only took 30 minutes so we aren’t even counting it as a stoic challenge. I actually thought we should have done it before, but we were too tired at the end of the repair last time.

After a quick shower at the Beach Gardens Marina we walked up to the newly reopened restaurant. Over the years, especially after COVID, it wasn’t always open. It’s lovely again now and the food and drinks were yummy.

Our e-bikes came in handy once again to explore. Last time we were here we had a bear encounter on the coastline walking path. But, not this time. Instead we lucked into the last day of the Logger Sports event. We’ve seen this before with our friend Erika. It’s totally awesome.

The contestants in the Jack and Jill sawing race are fast!

Powell River is quite the foody place so eating out is a must. We began with dessert first, yummy ice cream at the Logger event, and then a lovely “linner” with great food and a view. At the restaurant we chatted with a man from Seattle. He heard us discussing the crazy political situation and we all found a lot of agreement about the mess we are in. He’s the head researcher at Children’s Hospital. We told him we are part of Dick’s and he thought that was amazing. He had met someone on the ferry coming over from Vancouver Island who told him that when he is in Seattle he always goes to Dick’s. Then he met up with us. We love hearing stories like that. Back at the True Love we did some necessary cleaning and enjoyed another wonderful sunset glowing off the Salish Sea.

Not Another One!

First of all, everything is working now and we are starting our day anchored in beautiful Isabel Bay (on Lancelot Inlet, halfway down Okeover Inlet, in south Desolation Sound).

Although we so appreciate our summer moorage in Pender Harbour, we really love the peaceful experience of anchoring in a more secluded & beautiful spot. Last night we arrived and set the anchor. This spot is 70 feet deep, deeper than we prefer to anchor, but we have plenty of anchor chain and with almost no wind our anchor is holding beautifully.

The warm sun of summer has finally appeared, and it’s almost too warm in the late afternoon. The Captain kayaked and I paddle boarded to get some exercise and enjoy this special little anchorage before dusk and dinner. Although the sun set on our boat, Lancelot Inlet still had some late sun, so we went out for a ride in our tender and I played the Uke! It’s magical moments like these that make life so special.

OK, now I have to tell you about our recent water pump stoic challenge. We knew the water pump was having issues because it was represurizing itself every 5 minutes or so. Of course we searched for leaks, everywhere, but found none. I assumed it was reaching the end of its useful life (3-5 years). After calling the manufacturer in Florida and talking with a tech, we all decided it was a good idea to have a spare sent out along with another part that would be an even easier possible fix. But that would take at least a few days and possibly weeks, and after the call the problem got worse.

Our planned stay at John Henry’s Marina was for a few more days and we hoped we might get the water pump pretty quickly. Actually, because the part had to clear Canadian customs, the delivery time expanded from two days to two weeks! What happened to free trade within North America? We resigned ourselves to babying the water pump along and hoping for the best.

So we enjoyed our time there with our friends and dock mates Carmie and Dena, including a great dinner at the Painted Boat to celebrate our 43rd anniversary.

We kayaked around and found the place to dock to explore a beach front park on another day. Carmie deployed the sail on his super cute “Portland Pudgy” dinghy and it worked beautifully as he sailed it around Pender Harbour. The electric bikes also came in super handy as we used them to begin exploring the country roads nearby with all their rolling hills along the coastline, and we will do definitely do more of that in the future.

But, when we returned from our first long e-bike ride and gathered for evening happy hour, the water would not turn on at all. The Captain said, “OK, no worries, it’s just another stoic challenge!” And I thought it would be a snap to fix the water pump, as I’ve fixed it several times before, However, it was not easy and, although we did eventually fix it, the Captain was right: the project was another serous stoic challenge.

I went below and found a lot of water in the storage area. That was good. It meant I should be able to find the leak. The storage area is Tetris collection of equipment, supplies, spare parts and pantry. After removing the wet stuff and reorganizing, I spotted a water hose downstream of the pump that had detached. No problem, I thought, I’ll just re-attach it and our problem would be solved.

Unfortunately, it was not so easy. When the stabilizer was installed a few years ago the installers should have repositioned the hose but did not. Instead, the now ridiculously placed water pressure meter, is now in the far back corner, behind the stabilizer hydraulics and very difficult to reach . The Florida tech had asked us if we had a water presssure garage and we said no, because I had never seen it as it was completely hidden behind the stabilizer. I finally was able to re-attach the water hose on one side of the pressure gauge but the clamp that held it in place didn’t seem tight enough.

After a few unsuccessful tries to prime and restart the water pump, we realized it wasn’t working because the water tank was, of course, completely empty. When the pipe disconnected, the water pump noticed the drop in system pressure and must have run continuously until it emptied the 100 gallon water tank (which was half full before we went out for our e-bike exploration). All of that water drained into the bilge and the automatic bilge pumps cleared it, all during our two hour bicycle adventure!

Stoic challenges are often like this: a series of explorations, discoveries, attempted solutions, failures, learning and eventually accomplishment as the true underlying problem is finally discovered and repaired.

After refilling water the tank and going through the priming procedure again the pump worked. Yes!!!!! But….. the hose was still leaking just a little bit. Curses ensued. Then deep breathing.

You can see me here trying to tighten it with a short handled screwdriver, holding the flashlight with my toes. I asked the Captain to try but although it was tighter with his help, it still leaked a bit. Then we had the idea to use the socket wrench set and see if we could tighten it more. It took a some tries to find the right size and find a way to fit the tool into the tight space, but we finally did it, and …. it worked! No leaks!

All good, no problem, no worries, just hang loose after a two hour stoic challenge. Using the now wonderfully working water pump we showered and collapsed into bed.

It’s always good to make new discoveries about the True Love. When we get a chance we are going to replace the hose and move the water pressure meter to a more accessible location.

We persevered and are rewarded as our adventure continues. It looks like summer is here to stay with lots of warm, sunny days in the forecast. The next few days we will enjoy a bit of luxury at Dent Island followed by more exploring in the area north of Desolation Sound near the Blind Channel Resort.

Dent offers such caring service, exceptional food, fantastic docks and a nice way to meet new boating friends. We spent three days here and even got a little hiking in, lots of hot tubbing, exercising in the gym to work off all the food and some kayaking near the crazy rapids. But, we also enjoy our time in our “gunk holes” on the anchor, by ourselves. Currently, we are anchored near Blind Channel, next to the inside of Erasmus Island, all by ourselves.

On our way from Dent to Erasmus we connected with Jim’s childhood friend from Bellevue Julie (Jacobson) Saul and her new husband, John Boekholt. It turns out they met our friends Dena and Carmie earlier in the summer and somehow discovered that they both knew us. They were anchored in a special spot in Hemming Bay and we cruised over, where they met us on the True Love for some snacks and chats. You never know who you are going to run into while boating up here!

We thought we might head up to the Broughtons to escape the hot weather, but Johnstone Strait is predicted to have very strong winds. So, we’ve decided to enjoy this area for the next few days and then head South to Octopus Islands.

This anchorage offers calm waters, and fabulous star watching with expansive sky views and no light pollution! Last night we saw several shooting starts and the International Space Station!

It began with a stoic challenge . . .

We thought we had the True Love totally ready to go. All systems go. Our original plan was to leave in early June, but we were delayed by weather and helping my sister Rachel move to Wenatchee for a new job in her field of Addiction Counseling. Rachel has been earning a college degree in the subject over the past several years and now is working in her new career even before she graduates! We are so proud of her! It also gave us the opportunity for lots of Grandchild sports time.

On June 10th we left the dock. The weather forecast and tides looked good for a long cruise all the way to Canada. Normally, we cruise north slowly on literally our “bread run”, stopping for fresh bread at the bakery in Port Townsend, then clearing customs in Montague Harbour, followed by a stop at the Farmers Market at Salt Spring Island, where we get produce, goat cheese and of course more amazing fresh bread for the days ahead.

But this year we wanted to get to all the way to Comox (five hours north of Nanaimo) as soon as possible to pick up a replacement for our damaged tender. Our original 20 year old, 12-foot-long tender with a 40hp outboard engine was having issues last year, but we decided then to wait until 2025 to replace it. But that was before we punctured one of its four inflatable compartments on our first overnight “shakedown” cruise of 2024. We were using the hydraulic lift on the aft swim platform to bring the tender back onto its cradle and the first mate was trying a new procedure that would help shift the weight to port to make that task easier. Unfortunately, the innovation didn’t work, and instead the result was a 4″ gash in one of the inflatable compartments. So we patched it as best as we could with duct tape and layers of “Flex Seal” paint. The patch slowed the leak, but the crucial aft floatation chamber still completely deflated in only 10 minutes, putting the tender at risk of capsizing.

This was only the latest failure of one of our inflatable products in 2024. Earlier this year, we lost two paddle boards to overinflation explosions caused by the hot sun at our condo in Hawaii (another long story). And 2 other older paddle boards on the True Love failed after being stored outside over the winter. The good news is that the new Costco paddle board we bought just before leaving Seattle came with an electric pump that used an electric cigarette lighter plug.

Although the old tender didn’t have a working cigarette lighter plug, we had a jump-start battery that did, so we were able to use that to power the electric pump to put air into our leaking inflatable section faster than it was leaking out! Using that technique, we were able to safely drive the old tender to the boat launch for small boats in Comox, where a small boat trailer was waiting to pull it out of the water and take it to Parker Marine, the local boat dealer. Parker took our old boat and almost new 40hp outboard in trade on a new lighter tender with a smaller and lighter 25hp engine that solved the original problem we had with our underpowered tender lift! Stoic challenge #1 solved!

But back to our journey north. On our first day cruising we made it all the way to Montague in a relatively calm 10 hour cruise. The four hour crossing of the Strait of Juan de Fuca was calm at first but then crazy 2-3 foot confused seas developed. The stabilizer worked for the rolling, but we were dealing with some intense up and down, with some slamming, which caused a problem you will read about soon. It lasted about an hour and then the seas calmed again

Anchored at Montague, we tried to turn on the generator to make dinner but unfortunately, it didn’t work. Oh no!!!! Generator problems again! Stoic challenge #2 had arisen and we hadn’t yet fixed Stoic challenge #1. For those of you who followed us last year, you know this was a big issue for us. First we took a deep breath and used the grill to cook some duck thighs we had bought at Trader Joes (which were delicious!) The grilled duck over salad worked perfectly, but exhausted from our long first day, we went to sleep so that we could face this new stoic challenge tomorrow.

Our second day was an easy four hour cruise north to Nanaimo where we planned to stay two nights, go grocery shopping and eat at our favorite Greek restaurant. We were connected to shore power, but we knew we had to fix the generator or we would be stuck at docks all summer.

The Captain and I went down to the engine room to sleuth-out the generator problem and found that one of the electric leads to the generator’s fuel pump had fallen off and we couldn’t fix it without removing the pump. The good news is that I had videos from our repair with our favorite mechanic Mike “MacGyver” Martin, so I knew how to remove the fuel pump. We removed the necessary bolts, gently pulled it out and put the lead back on. It worked! Unfortunately, it wouldn’t stay on. But, we had Duct Tape! So we taped it on with narrow strips of Duct Tape. That worked beautifully! We’ve since had Mike look at it just in case, he thought we should do something else and Mike blessed our Duct Tape repair and said it should easily last all summer! So stoic challenge #2 was fixed even before stoic challenge #1!

After reading this some of you might be concerned that we don’t have enough duct tape, but no worries, we have two big rolls.

We now have folding electric bikes on board to make getting around easier when we are at a dock. Going up the steep hill above the Nanaimo Marina to eat at our favorite Greek Restaurant is now a breeze. We love them. Our second night in Nanaimo we used our e-bikes to go to an excellent Italian Restaurant near the Greek Restaurant. I’m using a “Lumen” device to gauge my daily metabolism and help me lose some weight by burning carbs more efficiently. It’s working really well for me. I feel better and stronger and have learned that on big exercise days I need to eat more carbs. It helps me exercise harder without aches and pains. Our second day in Nanaimo was a high carb day for me. So I was ready for some pasta and bread. We ordered their garlic cheese bread, which was more like a garlicky, cheesy, pizza with crust that was as thin and light as a croissant. In short, it was heavenly. The rest of the meal was yummy too. This restaurant is now another “must visit” when in Nanaimo.

Although it had been very windy, the weather improved during our 5 hour cruise from Nanaimo to Comox where we swapped our damaged “Caribe” tender for our new lighter “Highfield” tender. Everything happened smoothly thanks to Dan from Parker Marine. Jim and I walked around Comox and enjoyed a yummy pub meal. Our favorite bakery there was sold out of bread when we visited the day we arrived, but the morning we left to head to our summer moorage in Pender Harbour, I got up early to go for a run and procured some lovely, fresh baked multi grain bread which we are still enjoying.

Unfortunately, Stoic Challenge #3 arose while we were on our easy 5 hour cruise from Comox to Pender Harbour (our primary summer moorage) when the generator stopped working again! We just couldn’t believe it! This time the generator turned on (the duct tape repair was still working), but the water pump wasn’t pumping sea water to cool the engine, which meant that the generator would overheat in just a few minutes and turn itself off. This happens sometimes when the seawater thru-hull valve or strainer gets plugged with debris, but that usually happens when we are at anchor, not when we are cruising miles from shore where there is little surface debris. Regardless of the cause, however, we couldn’t do anything about it until we arrived at our moorage at John Henry’s Marina

And so Big Stoic Challenge #3 began. This was our opportunity to spend our time learning everything about our generator and its cooling system. Mike couldn’t come help us for a few days but he was available by text for questions and moral support.

We began by checking to see if the seawater intake or filter was clogged. Nope. That wasn’t it. Plenty of seawater was available to the generator, it just wasn’t circulating.

Next we removed and disassembled the water pump to see if the impeller was damaged – ding, ding, ding!

The impeller was broken into several pieces. After removing the sea pump, procuring and installing a new impeller (thank you Youtube) we with great fanfare turned it on and incredibly, it still didn’t work! No seawater was being expelled with the generator’s exhaust. We took a video to show Mike and he suggested we remove the pump and bring it over to Rick at the Madeira Park Marina. Rick is in high demand, doesn’t really talk to many people, but agreed to help us and check out our pump because we said Mike suggested it. He even came out and talked to Jim, which is highly unusual.

That night we sent a video to Dani’s husband Scotty, who is a real car guy, to ask if he had any suggestions. Of course, he first asked if we installed the impeller the correct way. We did, but we checked it the next day. It isn’t unusual to install it backwards. We asked if we could use fresh water from the dock faucet to test where the blockage was inside the generator. He said yes. And we really appreciated Scotty’s moral support and expert knowledge.

Exhausted, we went to sleep so we would be ready to tackle this new task the next day.

I have all the important manuals for the True Love well organized, but there wasn’t one for the generator. However, thanks to the internet, I was able to download it.

Mike suggested we get a shop vac before pushing fresh water into the generator to see if we could suck out any blockage, rather than trying to push it all the way through the generator and out through the exhaust vent. We borrowed a car from the marina manager, drove about 10 miles to a hardware store and got a cute little shop vac, some better tools and new water hose.

Then we began our investigation of the generator’s cooling system, removing the flexible pipes one by one and looking for the blockage. When we got to the “cooler” (heat exchanger) we used the shop vac but nothing came out. We then ran fresh water through the cooler and the water flowed unimpeded, so the problem, whatever it was, had to be “downstream” from there.

At the end of our second day of generator repairs we were very tired and still stumped. The next pipes we would check included a weird, “upside down V” joint which we later learned was a back-flow preventer to keep seawater from running back into the generator from the exhaust port in heavy seas. I didn’t feel comfortable dealing with that ourselves and Mike said he could come by and help us with it the next morning so, exhausted again, we went to sleep.

Mike arrived about 10am the next morning. He reviewed what we had done so far and gave us a thumbs up. He showed us how to remove the “end cap” from the cooler and clean out the coils inside, but that wasn’t the problem. I then showed him the back flow preventer. He showed us how to take it apart, cleaned it out and we found this . . . a tiny piece of zinc used in the cooler to stop salt water corrosion that had broken off and completely blocked the cooling seawater exhaust at that point . Unbelievable! I’ve saved it and it is on display. Sometimes it’s literally the smallest things that keep something from working properly.

Mike quickly helped us put everything back together properly. He found a few other little things to fix like a bolt that had fallen out of the bottom of the generator’s oil pan that was allowing a small amount of oil to leak. This is when Mike also checked our fuel pump duct tape fix and said it would likely last the summer or longer. So only an hour after Mike arrived all critical boat systems were finally working and we were ready to cruise to our favorite destination in the Sunshine Coast of British Columbia: Princess Louisa Inlet.

Despite all of stoic challenges, we arrived at PLI only one day later than we originally planned!

Our hope was to get into PLI before the July-August “busy” season and we succeeded. The waterfalls are abundantly flowing. Snow fields and glaciers cover the high mountains and during the occasional sunny days, we’ve enjoyed the spectacular scenery, kayaked, floated, gone paddle boarding, done yoga and read.

Our Starlink works here pretty well, so we can stay in touch with family and friends, keep up on some work projects, relax and finally publish the True Love Adventures blog. Ahhhhhhhh. It’s only warm here in the summer but during the summer PLI is our favorite place to be.

The first two nights we were here, another boat was in our favorite anchorage, so we tied up to a mooring buoy. By yesterday the other boat left and we moved to our favorite anchorage, between two smaller waterfalls and within sight of the big waterfall, Chatterbox Falls, at the head of the inlet. Our new tender is awesome and the generator is working flawlessly. It feels like our stoic challenges are behind us, at least for now.

Today was supposed to be a cold stormy day, but it hasn’t been as bad as we thought. We plan to spend a few more days here before heading back to Pender Harbour to resupply. After that we are heading up to Dent Island (North of Desolation Sound) for a few days of “5 star” marina accommodations and a special meal at Dent Island’s Rapids Grill.

Thanks for reading!

The Captain and The First Mate of the True Love

Our Asia Adventure ends in Singapore

Mumbai to Singapore was super easy. Tauck continued their excellent service by facilitating our transfer to the airport in Mumbai despite us staying the extra days.

Many people told us that two days were enough in Singapore and quite honestly we could have used an extra day. We didn’t get to do everything we wanted. But we filled our two days fully with visits to the wonderful Asian Cultural Museum (thank you Barbara!), the modern waterfront area and iconic Sands Casino Complex, the Gardens By The Bay park, the subways, a food tour and a jazz performance at a French bistro on our last night. We didn’t have time for a harbor boat tour or the visit to the nearby Sentosa Island Island recommended by Doris (our food tour guide). Oh well, there’s always next time. Singapore seems like a good stopover on our way to Perth, Australia someplace we would like to visit someday.

We stayed at the Tanglin Club (a reciprocal club for the Rainier Club) and it is in a perfect location: quiet, a wonderful history, a great pool, and easy access to stores, restaurants and the amazing Singapore subway system.

Our first morning the Tanglin Club hosted a Chinese New Year celebration. And it was great fun! Our first afternoon we enjoyed some quiet time at the pool and a swim and a salad and Diet Coke (with ice!) (remember in India you can’t eat salad or have ice without risking getting the “Delhi Belly” upset stomach).

Singapore in many ways is the antithesis of India. This very small nation state, smaller than Rhode Island, has accomplished so much in 50 years, overcoming its 3 year occupation by Japan in WW2 and third-world poverty. Today, it’s the wealthiest nation in SE Asia, orderly, clean and fun. This progress has come in large part from government policy that targets drug traffickers with life imprisonment (or even death!), a commitment to publicly funded education, and a government funded housing authority that has built a lot of high quality, high rise condos that people buy using money they are required to save from every paycheck (they can also use these mandated savings accounts for “premium” USA-style medical insurance or retirement income).

After our restful afternoon we headed out for an evening food tour with Doris, who we found on TripAdvisor.com. The tour was great fun. I wish we had room to eat more, but she took us to some great places we wouldn’t have found ourselves.

After finishing our tour with Doris we ventured by subway to the light show (the Bellagio is better, but this was still fun) and walking around the iconic Marina Bay Sands Casino, shopping mall and marina district.

The Singapore subways are nicer than Japan’s, immaculate and easy to navigate and with more easy to find escalators and fewer steps. Granted they are newer and cover much less territory. Paying for your fare is super easy: you just tap your credit card on one of the many turnstile gates when you enter, and again when you leave, and you are automatically charged a dollar or two for your trip. If you don’t have a credit card, you can tap your phone, or use a prepaid metro card. This is something Seattle should do with its Sounder Light Rail system, rather than continuing to rely on the “honor” system in which most riders act dishonorably.

Our final day we started early and we headed out to explore the “Gardens By the Bay” marina district and the Asian Civilizations Museum. Both were a lot of fun and the exhibits at the Museum were very well done. Again our “advance team” Barbara and Richard Wortley told us to check it out! As usual there was too much to see in one day at the museum. But the jewelry exhibit was special, showing the jewelry on the photo of the person who wore it.

Our day ended with a lovely dinner at a nearby Maison Gerard, a little local french bistro. We had noticed a poster earlier for a jazz performance on Monday night, so we made a reservation. We love attending these small music performances in the cities we visit and this one didn’t disappoint. We met a married couple at the table next to us who knew the performers. They shared with us that their daughter plays Eponine (one of the leading roles) in the London performance of Les Miserables. They shared videos of one of her performances and it gave us goosebumps. Hopefully, we will meet Jenny and Kevin Ong somewhere in the world someday and watch their lovely and talented daughter Nathania Ong perform on stage.

As we toured around Singapore we constantly noticed the lovely soundtrack that accompanied many places. It was interesting and southing. Certainly different that the soundtrack of honking horns in much of India that we visited.

Our journey home began early in the day on Tuesday 2/20/2024. We left Singapore at 9 AM and arrived in Seattle the same day at 7 AM thanks to the international date line.

Jasmine picked us up at SeaTac and we headed to her house to hang out with Jasmine, David and the grandkids. It was so good to give them hugs and play a bit. Then we headed up to the mountains, retrieved our tons of mail at the little post office and stayed up until about 5 PM before we took a nap, stayed up a few more hours and then went back to sleep. May our jet lag adjustment take less than a week!

It’s been 5 days since we’ve been back and we’ve gotten back into our regular schedule; mail is sorted, groceries stocked, we’ve played bridge with friends, stayed on our boat, visited my sister, attended a bluegrass festival and finalized work on some business projects. Snow is in the forecast for the mountains and we hope to enjoy some good snow skiing later this week.

Jim says we can’t plan our next travel adventure for 2025 until we totally get through the jet lag. But we are thinking Germany/Austria/Switzerland or Croatia/Greece/Israel then of course there is always the option of going back to northern Italy (we haven’t been there since we visited with the kids 20 years ago). These will all be wonderful, but nothing like the exotic and unusual experience we just had in India.

Stay tuned for our yachting blog this summer!

Our final India stop: Mumbai

Mumbai was named “Bombay” by the Portuguese because it’s a very “Good Bay.” Mumbai, like San Francisco, is a large vibrant city on a peninsula surrounded by water. But it’s much larger: the 10th largest city in the world, with over 23 million people.

After arriving at the airport we had a lunch at the airport’s Taj hotel complete with a space man! Then we loaded on a bus for our first driving tour with a stop at the massive “laundry Ghats”. This is where people still do laundry, not for individuals anymore (because of washing machines) but for the garment industry. If you get clothes from India and they are color safe or preshrunk and manufactured in Mumbai, they are washed here. It didn’t really make sense to me until we did our tour of the nearby Dharavi Slum the next day.

The Dharavi Slum is hard to understand until you see it. Our tour was led by a “slum tour” entrepreneur who took us through the allyways of the cramped confines of this part of the central city.

Unlike Seattle’s homeless encampments you don’t see crime, drugs and addiction here. Instead you see the manufacture of clothing, luggage, furniture and leather products (as well as old apartment buildings in the nearby residential areas), and very little begging. Many of these products are sold by Amazon and other international retailers. People were pleased to see us and proud of their work. These people work and live in the area because it is close to the central city and they don’t have to commute. Slums like Dharavi are the only affordable places to live in this very expensive city. The only other option is commuting 2 hours a day by train to the more affordable suburbs, but since most people work 10 hours a day, a lot of people choose to live in the slum. So Mumbia is a city of dramatic contrasts, from its many modern high rise buildings, to the ghats and the slums. The hard working entrepreneur who created our “slum tour” is proud of his community (where he was born and still lives) and wanted tourists to see and understand why so many people choose to live and work here.

He also trains other guides who live here so they can work part time to help pay their way through college. At first the local officials here didn’t like the idea of the tours saying that this wasn’t the “real India and why would you want to show people this?” But he convinced them it was important and tour companies like Tauck now bring lots of people here to tour. Part time work is very rare n Mumbai, so it’s difficult to “work your way through college.” Of course with the cost of real estate here, all of the old low-rise apartments will eventually be replaced by modern high rise apartments, although many plans to do so have failed because of corporate and government corruption.

I asked our guide what he would do and and he said the government should just give people who live and work here enough money for them to move out of the city and let them decide where to go and live and work. When our airport guide for Tauck (who is well paid) was asked why he still lives there, he said: “why wouldn’t I? It’s where I grew up, and where my family still lives.” Different strokes I guess.

I’m already brain storming about how I can get Amazon to help with this issue. If you have any ideas about how to do that, please share those with me.

Our first day in Mumbai, Jim and I skipped the morning tour to get up early and watch the Super Bowl. We all know how that turned out. It was a great game, but with mediocre commercials and a lousy ending. We are using the IPad to stream the commercials.

We ended our final Tauck Tour day with a boat ride to tour Elephanta Island. Our boat departed from the famous “Gateway to India” built by the British a hundred years ago, when everyone who traveled to India came by boat and most embarked at Mumbia because that’s where you could most easily get on a train to continue to your final destination in India’s interior.

Our 45 minute boat ride crossed the big bay, passed large commercial freight docks and cruised over muddy waters.

Docking at the stone pier at tiny Elephanta Island is definitely like going back in time. After reaching the top of the pier, we rode a funky little toyish train to the shore, the then climbed the 120 steps up to the caves, which are filled with very impressive Hindu carvings of the Hindu Divine Trinity: the Creator, the Preserver and the Destroyer of Evil. Our guide beautifully narrated the stories behind the sculptures as we circled from the east entrance to the final statue of Shiva in a meditative pose. He sits at the end of his everlasting life cycle in the classic meditative pose with only two arms. The Hindu Divine Story reflects the 4 stages of humanity: Youth (where we gain knowledge), Marriage, Retirement, and then the end of life, giving up materialism, meditating on life and hopefully reaching Nirvana. The caves were carved in the 5th century AD. The caves are surprisingly dramatic, beautiful and insightful.

As we headed back to our hotel by boat, our incredible group was feeling a bit of melancholy. We’ve all had a great time together and shared so much, thanks to our leader and tour guide, the amazing Tina del Campo.

At our farewell dinner there was lots of joy and hugs and promises to stay in touch.

Because of the available flights from Singapore to Seattle, we decided to chill here in Mumbai for a few more days and did some touring on our own, confidently navigating our way across busy streets, hailing cabs and exploring the Victoria Terminus Train Station. Boy it’s huge and busy! We also went to the very good Prince of Wales Museum and strolled the waterway in front. of our hotel, past the many “art deco” style hotels and apartments.

A lot of people wanted to take pictures of me in my pink hat. Someone said I looked like Englands Queen Camilla (married to King Charles). The pink hat I bought in Kerala for $1.20 has made me a minor star on the Mumbai waterfront. I don’t see the resemblance, I’m definitely more “wheatish” as they say in India because of my dark skin, but a lot of people here think differently.

For Valentine’s night we were ready for a small local restaurant and the concierge suggested Poco Loco Town, a Mexican/Spanish Tapas restaurant in a less fancy part of town. We had a blast and the food was different but yummy. We walked back to the waterfront after dinner and stumbled on another remarkable serendipitous celebration of Ganesh (the beloved Indian deity of Good Fortune). Families arrived in trucks with their specially decorated Ganesh statues, walked onto the sandy beach, prayed, made wishes, lit incense and then took the Ganesh statue into the water and pushed it out to sea. We were surrounded by lots of Hindu joy and family celebration and welcomed into several celebrations for photos.

Organizing our luggage for our last leg of the journey is next on the agenda, followed by dinner with friends of the Wortleys, who are our Seattle-area friends who lived and worked in India years ago.

Our final day in Mumbai we woke up ready to find the big Jain Temple. Apple Maps said it wasn’t far, but we didn’t realize there were many Jain temples in the area. We wandered in areas of Mumbai that are very local: markets, local shops, cows, clothing, street side typists and more. We did find many small Jain temples, bought some sandals, laughed a lot and made it back to the hotel after about 3 hours of wandering.

After we got back to the hotel, we realized the big Jain Temple was very close to our friends business who we were visiting later. So we rested a bit, got a snack, and then took a cab and successfully visited the beautiful Temple in a very different part of the city.

Then we had the joy of meeting Anand and Sujata. It’s so special in life to meet new people. They’re lovely people and they took us to a special dinner at the very popular Trishna fish restaurant in a lovely part of town we somehow missed on our walkabout earlier. We truly hope they will visit us in Seattle when they come to the states again.

As we write our final blog of India we are in Singapore and we fly home tomorrow. We don’t miss the honking. We are thrilled to have ice, salad, fresh vegetables and fresh air. But more on Singapore in the last blog.

The farthest south of our India journey: Kochi and Kerala.

We left Udaipur for our early flight to Kochi. Flying within India is different. Security is extremely uneven and doesn’t always make sense. You cannot check ANY electronics or eletrically powered equipment; no cords, shavers, hair blowers, curling irons, ear pods, computers, iPads, travel speakers, anything that can possibly be an electronic item in any way. (Strangely, large water bottles are fine). So all of your electrical or electronic devices, wires and chargers must be in your carry on bags and pulled out for detailed screening when you go through security. Otherwise they will pull your checked bag and throw away any electronics/electrical item (if you are lucky), or just put your checked bag in the holding area for further inspection if you are not lucky. Sometimes they will contact Tina who can sometimes go into the bowels of the airport to rescue the bag. Tina spent a lot of time pre-airport trip reminding us of the rules. Jim and I passed the test every time.

There are different lines for screening men and women. Sometimes the women’s line is a distance from the scanner. But “no problem” it all worked out and we eventually became experts at getting through Indian airport security.

In Kochi we stayed at a Hyatt on the Arabian Sea, with a lovely pool which we used in the evening after our long day, and in the morning for a few laps before our day began.

Our second day in Kochi included a boat tour of the bay complete with “Chinese” fishing nets and dolphins. Jim and I always love getting on the water. The south of India has a totally different vibe: it’s cleaner, slower, the roads are more orderly, and the traffic flows smoother. The bus driver’s good luck charms (usually Ganesh statues in the north) are replaced in the south by crosses and pictures of Jesus. Interestingly, the south has an almost 100% literacy rate due to its long history of Catholic education, beginning with the Portuguese in the 1600’s. The area also has a long history of a few large landowners and almost no property ownership for the people who worked the fields and the rice paddies. The Socialist/Communists saw an opportunity from that, supported land reform, and now control the local government in the Indian State of Kerala (of which Kochi is the Capitol). Fun fact: our bus team support person is named Stalin, which is not unusual in this area.

The excellent book “Covenant of Water” begins to come alive for us in Kochi and Kerala. We took a boat from our hotel to the other side of the bay where our bus was waiting for us to take us to Nimmy & Paul’s House. Nimmy is the Indian equivalent of Paula Deen or Julia Childs. She and her husband live in a house set up with a TV kitchen and we were treated to a lesson in Southern Indian cooking and a scrumptious lunch. Everything was delicious, but her Chicken Biryami was the best I’ve ever eaten. I can’t wait to cook it at home using her recipe. She was “discovered” 50 years ago by a NY Times travel writer and now does presentations for Tauck and a few other tour groups.

From there we headed to Kochi’s “Jew Town” and a fabulous old Synagogue. Interestingly, there were once a few thousand Jews in Kochi. A few families came as spice traders during Roman times, but most immigrated there after the Spanish Inquisition 500 years ago and lived under the protection of the local Maharaja in harmony with Hindus and Muslims for hundreds of years. Most immigrated to Israel after the State of Israel was created in 1947. Some historians even claim King Solomon visited Kochi to trade for spices 2,500 years ago.

I did my spice shopping there because this area is still where a lot of spices are grown.

We left Kochi the next morning to head to the Kerala Backwaters. The Kerala Backwaters are a chain of brackish lagoons, canals and lakes south east of Kochi. We began with a 2 hour bus drive and then boarded a large kettuvallam house boat to journey to the Kumarakom Lake Resort. The house boat journey felt like something out of the old Bogart movie “The African Queen”. We slowly navigated the river to a giant lake, enjoyed a yummy lunch onboard, and then docked at the resort. Along the way we saw rice paddies, hawks that looked like bald eagles and lot of other birds of all kinds. These waters are home to many species. Many of the house boats are quite fancy to accommodate tourists, complete with nice bathrooms and bedrooms.

Kumarakom Lake Resort’s lovely grounds include views of the lake and a meandering “canal” swimming pool that twists and turns and allows you to swim to almost any other room. We took advantage of the “Ayurvedic” spa treatments and massages at the resort. The Rejuvenation Massage included lots of oil and two masseuses. The second day I did the Pathrapotala Swedam which is supposed to be good for arthritis. Here’s the description: leaves or powders of medicated herbs are fried in medicated oils bundled in a Muslim cloth, and then applied over the body in a rhythmic manner. The “rhythmic manner” (performed by two women) was part cupping, rug beating, and hot stones. But it only started after an “all over” Ayurvedic oil massage. What can I say, I felt great after.

On our second morning we headed out early for a wonderful tour of a local village complete with two house visits. Whenever volunteers were needed to try something I was in, so I got to climb a coconut tree, make rope from coconuts, weave a fan from coconut leaves and dress in local saris, all of which were lovely experiences

The Kumarakum Resort had a different local presentation before dinner each night. Our first night we were entertained by two lovely folk dancers, while the second night we watched in awe as several young men recreated ancient battles with swords, spears, fire and the craziest extending whip sword you’ve ever seen. This was serious stuff.

All in all we couldn’t have asked for a better experience.

After two nights we left early in the morning to fly to Mumbai (India’s second largest city and the 10th largest in the world). Unfortunately, the Kochi airport is where we encountered our first big challenge with Indian airport security.

Although we had gone through security many times at many airports, the security people at Kochi confiscated our Garmin InReach device, which is a satellite security beacon that would allow us to give our GPS coordinates and send short texts in an emergency. We brought it with us just to be safe if something unexpected happened, but had never used it. At first the security people said it was e-cigarette (which are not allowed in either checked or carry-on luggage in India). I told them it wasn’t and showed them what it was online. Then they said, oh no, you can’t have that either because it’s a satellite phone. Tina tried to work her magic and we explained to them without success that we had gotten it through security in every other city. But in the end, there was no rational solution and they confiscated the $400 device. We keep it on our boat for emergencies so we’ll need to get a new one when we get back. Oh well. Security is extremely tight around India because of past terrorism and we did confirm online that the Garmin device is banned here. Of course it’s no different than any of our phones or watches. But that’s how it goes.

We made it to Mumbai (formerly Bombay) after another long flight delay, met up with our first local guides there and finally arrived at our last lovely Oberoi Hotel, which is located near the end of Mumbai Peninsula on beautiful Marine View Drive. Mumbia is a great city, and the last stop on our India Tour. I’ll tell you about our adventures there in the next blog. Thanks for reading!

Agra (Taj Mahal), Jaipur, & Udaipur

I wish I was a poet then I could better capture the fullness of our journey in Agra, Jaipur and Udaipur. All are in “northern India, and yet very different. Our hotels there were all magnificent and the people and the food were amazing.

The Taj Mahal

Truly the most spectacular building in the world we’ve ever seen, the Taj Mahal was built by a Moghul Emporer for his beloved wife who died giving birth to her 14th child. They are both entombed there in the center of the central dome, while other family members are entombed nearby. The grounds compliment the buildings perfectly and we got the opportunity to visit it twice: first at sunrise with spectacular morning light and almost no people, and second, later that morning. Although we had just finished an extremely exhausting travel day from Varanasi the day before (with an early start and long air travel delays due to thick fog), I took full advantage of the special morning tour opportunity. Jim was exhausted so he slept in and enjoyed the second tour. No one knew if the weather would be clear enough, and we were worried the fog would be a problem in the morning, but our tour group has good Karma and the early morning weather was beautiful!

Marble and inlay work decorate every aspect of the Taj. After the tour, we went to see local artists train to create smaller marble creations with the same craftsmanship. The Indian government funds these programs to keep the ancient techniques alive for the future. We bought a small serving tray with the same incredibly fine detail to help us remember our visit.

Agra Fort

Red Forts are abundant in India. The Maharajas built them for protection from invaders but the Moguls captured almost all of them. Agra Fort is massive, built with the local red sandstone, and housed generations of Moguls and their harems. Eventually, the British took over the site and after India gained its independence in 1947, the site is now part museum and part military base. Agra Fort has multiple layers of defense, including two moats (one dry, the other flooded with river water and stocked with crocodiles), tall stone walls and a single, narrow, steep entrance that is flanked by tall stone walls.

The palace history includes some serious familial infighting, including siblings ousting their father (the King), and then murdering each other until only one was left (who became the new King).

Jaipur

From Agra we loaded onto our bus and headed for Jaipur, about 3 hours away in the State of Rajasthan (the largest of the 28 Indian States, but “lightly populated” with only about 70 million people). We met our new local guides Jai & Shailendra along the road.

We began our tour of Jaipur by driving into its downtown for a quick tour of the area in the evening late, navigating the traffic and getting a first peak at the bus old town. From there it was off to visit a remarkable Astronomical Observatory built 300 years ago by its Maharaja (King). With a population of only 3 million, Jaipur is a tenth the population of Delhi, much cleaner, and with less poverty. The buildings are beautiful and the city interesting.

One of the old Maharaja’s fascinations and interests was with the zodiac, the stars and keeping time, so he created these ancient wonders. The “sky stairs” are accurate sundials. The bigger the sundial, the more accurate, with the largest sundial accurate to within 2 seconds. The other structures help find Zodiac stars and other cool stuff.

From the Observatory we walked to the nearby City Palace. Part of it houses the current descendants of the Maharajas but most of it is now a museum open to the public. One of the former Maharajas was an enormous man with gigantism disease. His clothing is huge. He commissioned lots of art, including giant silver vessels that he used to drink Jaipur water even when he traveled to England. A big private party was setting up for the night with beautiful flowers.

From the City Palace we rode our bus to the Ramba Palace Hotel, for a dining extravaganza part that began with a procession of elephants, camels, horses and included a traditional Indian folk dance.

Needless to say we slept well that night at our hotel: the stunning Oberoi Raj Villas.

The next day we toured the the old town again in the morning light, crossed a crazy, very busy intersection. The key is to “walk like a cow”. Don’t run, don’t stop. Somehow the traffic weaves around you. Amazingly, in all the the chaotic Indian traffic we never saw an accident. It just works. But crossing the intersection wasn’t the craziest thing. A couple of us, including me, experience the snake charmer and his pet cobra. I’m assuming it was defanged, but strangely we didn’t ask.

Then it was back across the traffic and on to our magic bus for our next stop, the Amber Palace, a much larger and older palace on the outskirts of Jaipur that was protected by a hilltop fortress and a long stone wall that was miles long.

Back at our hotel, Jim napped while I walked the grounds and then we both enjoyed a truly delightful dinner under the stars at the hotel’s signature Indian Restaurant. We ordered a special chicken, wrapped in banana leaves, surrounded by dough, they buried and cooked for hours. It’s how the old hunting parties cooked and ate the game they caught when they were too far from the palace to bring it back. For dessert we had a delicious Kundalika cookie (warm crisp fennel cake steeped in sweetened extract and covered with edible silver foil referred to as “jalebi”), a traditional royal treat to end the meal.

We really wished we could have stayed here another night. The pace of the trip has been too fast for us up to this point, but when you travel in a group you have to follow the schedule.

Side note: Hotel laundry. We never pay for expensive hotel laundry, but we were pretty tired and decided to splurge. The laundry came back perfectly folded and wrapped, making repacking a breeze. I wouldn’t do it all the time, but it was definitely worth the splurge this time.

In Jaipur we had special packing instructions for our next adventure. Our bag pulls were the night before at 7:15 PM. The bags were going on the bus for an overnight 9 hour drive from Jaipur to Udaipur, while we would fly the next day. Our bus heroes were Arjune and our “Top Gun” bus driver Sarinder (who could weave our bus through the chaotic traffic, often with just an inch to spare on each side).

The next day began with a wake up alarm at 3:45 AM. We quickly got up, ate a few bites with our coffee and left the hotel for the airport at 4:30 AM.

Tina was nervous, because on her last tour the flight was delayed for two hours, then canceled (because of weather) and her group had no choice but to drive the 9 hours to Udaipur.

But our travel Karma was good again. We took off on time and landed in Udaipur two hours later without a problem.

Udaipur

With no delays in travel we headed to the Bougainvillea Art Gallery and restaurant for breakfast. The scenery here includes the oldest mountains in the world, the Aravali. The youngest are the Himalayas in northern India.

We picked up our local guides, Shakti and Jeevan along the road (it’s their way). Shakti’s wife needed the car. At the end of the Udaipur tour he used a scooter to drive home.

Although both are in Rajasthan, the scenery in Udaipur looked quite different from Jaipur. Udaipur has a lot more water, with lakes and green fields in the valleys, surrounded by small mountains and rolling hills that look like Northern California.

The Aravali’s art, trees, and background music created a “laid back” California vibe that we appreciated as we enjoyed our breakfast. The place is designed by a famous local who broke out of his “business caste” to successfully thrive in the art business. His family helps run and support the business side. The galleries also display stunning art from local artists.

After the art gallery we were in for a truly amazing and authentic village experience when our bus entered a small village that was just starting to celebrate a wedding! Instead of taking the direct freeway journey, our local guide (Shakti) asked our bus driver (Sarinder) to take our bus on a backroad through local villages and farmland. This is not a place where large 40 person buses usually go. The people we passed along the way seemed as happy to see us as we were to see them, and they waved and smiled and watched as we journeyed passed wheat fields and through simple villages, where women cary containers of water on their heads and there are plenty of cows and water buffalos.

And then the magic happened . . . a local village wedding blocked our road. “No Problem” as our amazing guide Tina says. Shakti, suggested we all get out to see the groom on his decorated horse.

The groom looked regal and was preparing to ride a short distance down the main village road to a special location for a ceremony. When we got there, we were all invited to join the festivities and draped with ceremonial orange scarves. Then the music from the giant “boom box van” started and everybody started dancing. The villagers, dressed in their finest clothes, loved that we were there with them and they embraced us, danced with us, took tons of selfies and none of us wanted to get back on the bus. Instead, we joined the procession to the bride’s house. The women of the village surrounded me and wanted to touch me, take pictures with me and dance with me. It was an amazing experience!

I really don’t think that anything on this trip will top the village wedding. We all had a blast.

Overjoyed, but exhausted and hot, we loaded back on the bus, drank cold bottled water and settled in for a drive to a smaller refurbished palace/hotel for lunch. This place, Devigarh, was purchased by an entrepreneurial Indian business woman and offers stunning views and a delightful lunch. Apparently, the building was in a state of extreme disrepair when she bought it and it took vision and a lot of hard work to reopen it as a small hotel and restaurant. In gratitude for its success, she built a small temple there to one of the female goddesses.

After Devigarh, it was on to a nearby 1,000 year old Hindu Temple that was filled with detailed carvings. Some of the carvings depict tantric acts that were supposedly designed to clear the mind of bad thoughts before praying. I’m not really sure that’s effective. However, many wedding couples come to the temple to take wedding pictures and we all enjoyed seeing the young couples, some very ornate, some more simple but all beautiful.

After that long fun day we finally reached the boat dock in Udaipur for the short boat trip to Lake Palace.

Normally, Tauck Tour groups stay at the lakeshore Oberoi, but it was booked for a big wedding so we got to stay at the Lake Palace. It’s all white marble, completely covering a small island so that it appears to “float” on the lake.

The Lake Palace epitomizes the paradox of India. Stunning, special, romantic and extremely quirky. The hotel rooms are all a bit different because the Lake Palace is over 250 years old. The staff is amazing. The boat ride to the hotel from the lake shore was delightful, and we really enjoyed the cooler temperature on the water and the fresh air. But once we got to our room, we were not allowed to open any of the windows. So sad! And then there are the birds. Tina told us a story about a past tour where a guest called her complaining that “she had to do something about the birds”. We laughed at her story, but that night after sunset and figuring out how to use the shower without flooding the bathroom (its a long story), the unbelievable cacophony of the birds started (and lasted for several hours). We cracked up. Check out the sounds in the video.

Instead of using roof nets to keep the birds out of the interior courtyard, large numbers of hotel staff constantly clean up the mess left by courtyard birds. We asked them why they don’t net, and they said, and I’m not kidding you, “we used to have nets, but the trees in the courtyard grew too tall, so we cut the nets down.” But no problem! The birds settle down around 9PM and we used our earplugs so they didn’t wake us at dawn.

Sari & Turban Fashion Show.

We loved Udaipur. The pace is slower, the town clean and safe, and the history interesting. We had a wonderful tour of the Udaipur City Palace, again part museum part home to the Maharana family. It was stunning as usual. Some of us did the long tour.

And we enjoyed another fantastic meal at a very nice local home owned by the descendants of a former high advisor to the last Maharaja of Udaipur. The experience is really special and they only do it a couple of months in the year, only for Tauck and Ambecrombie and Kent tours. The family sat with us in the foyer and chatted before we headed into the dining room where they served the most deliciuos and unusual meal, delicately seasoned and served family style.

Tuk Tuks in Jaipur and Udaipur.

Tuk Tuks in the city are just wild. The traffic in Jaipur moves with virtually no rules although there are traffic circles. Being on our big bus with our top gun driver feels a bit unsettling but we are safe, because we are the biggest vehicle out there. But Tuk Tuks are another story entirely.

In Jaipur we took them from the Palace, past camels, horses, elephants, cars, vespas, and lots of motorcycles to get from the crowded part of town to the bus to get to our dinner in an other part of the city.

On our last day in Udaipur, the Tuk Tuks were ours for the day. Jim was overjoyed. They took us through the old town to the market. Walking through the market early in the morning really gave us an idea of life in the city for most locals. Then we rode them to a special garden with water fountains that increase and decrease with the water level in the lake. From there we headed to the jewelry and craft area where we did some shopping. I got a beautiful filigree silver necklace, learned about rainbow moonstones and then headed back by tuk tuk to the boat for our last evening in the Palace. Tuk Tuks in the calmer traffic of Udaipur feel much safer.

Next blog will share our travels south to Kochi and Kerala, what a different vibe and experience.

Delhi, Varanasi and Back

Thankfully, the rain is falling in Delhi, cleansing the air around us. I’m going to attempt to share the last 48 hours with you all as we sit on our coach bus heading for Agra and the Taj Mahal.

The dense fog and pollution of the area has slowed and sometimes canceled air travel. And to get to Varanasi, air travel is a must.

Two days ago we gathered as a group at the Leela Palace Hotel with our remarkable tour guide Tina. We were told by Mona from the Leela Palace that Tina was the best guide and we agree! She is our logistics manager, trip mother, shopping guide, sister and overall everything. We feel that whatever we need, whatever problem arises, she can handle it with aplomb. Her caring, energy and humor has been wonderful. She started us off with some introductory ice breakers and then we headed out for our first tour around Delhi. We really have no idea how the bus driver was able to maneuver us through all the traffic. But he did it smoothly and expertly.

Over the last 48 hours Tina has coordinated luggage on two flights, 2 buses, hotel rooms, food, multiple flight delays, changes in plans and our expert guides. The result: we experience zero stress unless we think about what Tina is doing!

On our first tour day, we met our first guide, Samidha, who led us through the bus tour of the New Delhi and our first stop at Gandhi’s Smriti (where Gandhi spent the last four months of his life before he was martyred by a gunman during a public prayer meeting on January 30, 1948). The academy award winning film “Ghandi” was partly filmed at this site. If you haven’t watched it recently, you should. There is a reason he was called “Mahatma” Gandhi. As Albert Einstein wrote: “Generations to come will scarcely believe that such a one as this ever in flesh and blood walked upon the earth.”

Aside: we just dropped off our airport guide, luggage and logistics leader in Delhi, Amrinder. We stopped in traffic near the Leela, he literally jumped out of our bus near a traffic circle in the crazy Delhi traffic, hailed a tuk-tuk to go back to the hotel, where he’s going to grab his car and drive 40 Kilometers home after a very full day. As Captain Kirk said about Spock in Star Trek IV (the humpback whale movie), Tina said, “it’s his way.” And, she said, “it’s India. He does it every trip.”

Ok, back to Ghandi. The museum and memorial site is quite moving and interesting. Combined with our knowledgeable guide, Ghandi’s life and last days come alive, including his final footsteps as he walked to his final prayer meeting. Ghandi was assassinated as he walked to the outdoor gathering, but he achieved in his violent, unnecessary death, what he couldn’t achieve in his life during the violent division of India into India & Pakistan, the end of the massive, nationwide, Hindu-Muslim violence throughout the country that had already killed over 1,000,000 people.

As the award winning book “Freedom at Midnight” described it: “For six terrible weeks, like the ravages of a medieval plague, a mania for murder would sweep across the face of northern India . . . Communities which had lived side by side for generations fell upon each other in an orgy of hate.” You can feel the trauma of the emotions resulting from the this violence just 75 years ago.

That night we headed back to the Leela, Jim and I swam in the beautiful rooftop pool, and then enjoyed a lovely group dinner together.

The next day we explored some of the amazing Muslim sites in Delhi, including the Tomb of Humayun (one of the early Mughal Emperors). It is the inspiration for the Taj Mahal. It was commissioned by Humayan’s wife.

The huge Qutb Minar (tower) that was erected on top of a Hindu Temple to commemorate the first Muslim conquest of Northern India and Delhi over 800 years ago, in the year 1191. It’s an extensive archaeological site. I must say our Hindu guide, Samidha, did her best, but as a Hindu, her heart was saddened by the 700 year years of Muslim rule that followed, before the British Empire replaced the Moghul Empire in 1857.

It was a full day and with the traffic we were running late. We had a lovely lunch at a Mediterranean restaurant and then headed back to the Leela for a last swim. Now it was time to pack for our 24 hour excursion to Varanasi (the holiest site in the Hindu religion). Most of our clothes went into our main suitcases to stay on the bus but we packed one small overnight bag for our flight and overnight at the Holy City.

We were up early for our last yummy Leela Palace breakfast and magic Chai Tea so that we could be on the bus by 7:30 to get to the airport. Unfortunately, our flight was delayed for several hours while we waiting for the thick Delhi smog to lift.

This is not a trip we could possibly have done without Tina and her logistics team. She’s always finding a place to call her office, here it is the airport, making sure everything is ready for our next stop.

We finally arrived in Varanasi and were met there by a new bus and a new team of local guides Atanu and Devesh and the amazing bus drivers. We then headed immediately to Saranat, the birthplace of Buddhism (the Varanasi area is also one of the holiest places in Buddhism). On our way to Saranat our guide gave us a lecture about the 3 most important Hindu gods (Brahma, Shiva and Vishnu). Brahma is the Creator, Shiva is the Destroyer, and Vishnu is the Preserver who works to sustain the world by maintaining a sustainable balance between Creation and Destruction. Buddhists believe that Buddha was the first man to escape the endless Hindu cycle of birth, death and rebirth, achieving perfect enlightenment (“Nirvana”). Buddha was born into a royal family in India, near Nepal. However, when he became a young man, he was dissatisfied with his material wealth, and gave up his royal birthright to explore the world of the common people. There he learned about the suffering of all people, including growing older, getting sick and dying. He then meditated and prayed on his experiences over six years, before giving his first sermon, near Varanasi, around 2,500 years ago.

We walked around the Buddhist archeological site with its extensive ruins and large Stupa along with other tourists and some religious pilgrims.

Because of our earlier flight delays we were running late so we did not get to spend as much time with the Buddhists as we would have liked. But we needed to get back to our hotel so we could get ready for our Ganges river boat tour. At the hotel we threw our stuff into our rooms, had a quick buffet dinner, grabbed layers of clothes for the expected cold evening on the river. We then got back on our bus and went to the Ghats (riverside) area of Varanasi to witness the Cremation Ceremonies on the Mother Gonga River (known to English speakers as the Ganges River).

Darkness, the smells of wood burning, pilgrims, the river, the boats, the music, the prayers, the lights, the celebration of life and transition, smoke, burning the eyes, exhaustion, sights and sounds of wild weddings ceremonies briefly energized us again . . . It’s impossible to properly describe the experience, but here’s my attempt. It was otherworldly to witness the mass cremation of recently passed loved ones of devout Hindus. Their hope is that by cremating their beloved family members in this way, in Varanasi, that the departed souls will escape the otherwise eternal cycle of birth-death-rebirth and instead transition to a heavenly state of “nirvana.”

The man dressed in white with the shaved head is the “Chief Mourner”. Usually the oldest son.

Back at our hotel, there were three consecutive weddings: all loud, colorful and beautiful. We showered and collapsed into bed. Jim was really affected by the relentless air pollution of northern India, and especially the smoke from the multiple cremations. I put in my earplugs to dim the wedding party sounds and fell soundly asleep until 4:45 AM when I was going to go back to the river to experience with some of our group the daily ceremony of “waking up” Mother Gonga for another day of religious experiences.

Despite being told not to take photos while navigating the crazy traffic back to the bus, none of us could resist the wedding party. This is wedding season and it is one of many we have seen already.

Again, we were enveloped in thick fog and air pollution. We walked past a different group of prayer leaders and people washing in the Ganges for purification and prayer. We stopped and watched the ceremony by the priests to “wake up” the river and welcome the sunrise. It involved four parts each: incense, conch shell blowing, wiping away the incense, and honoring the flame with frankincense and myrrh and the cobra, each time pointing at the four points of the compass.

Then we were back on a smaller boat, also decorated with marigolds (a holy flower in India) to head in the other direction on the river. There were fewer cremation ceremonies at this time of day but some people were immersing themselves in the river for a spiritual cleansing . Although the river is cleaner than it once was at the hight of its pollution, it is by no means clean. Yet, people still gather at the water’s edge and some actually go into it. On the boat we saw a yogi floating in the river, doing a yoga pose while floating on his back. We all thought he was dead. None of us got a picture, but all agreed it was remarkable. On the way back to the bus I spoke with Devesh about a charity he works that helps women caught up in sex slavery and prostitution usually from an early age. His charity is called Ganga Learning Center and it’s on facebook. Jim and I will make a donation on his behalf. The book I am currently reading is “Kaleidoscope City” which describes the history of Varanasi and also covers this scourge.

After our mystical, morning experience, the early group headed back to the hotel where we had breakfast and waited to go to the Veranasi Airport for our (once again) delayed flight back to Delhi. Tina was magically monitoring our plane, which was delayed for hours from leaving Mumbai because of the thick fog/smog in Varanasi. Tina wasn’t sharing her stress with us, but there really is no other way to get from Varanasi back to Delhi where we would re-unite with our bus and most of our luggage so that we could travel to Agra to see the Taj Mahal. If our flight was canceled, and it wasn’t looking good, Tina was thinking about plans c, d, e, or f. But our plane finally arrived and then took us back to Delhi. I was seated next to two monks who had just been at the site of Buddha’s 6 year prayer journey to enlightenment. There had been a gathering of 18,000 monks with his Holiness the Dali Lama. One monk showed me his amazing photos and we also shared photos of where we both lived, dreaming about the clean air of the mountains: us in Snoqualmie Pass, and the monks in the Himalayans.

It began to rain hard as after we entered the bus to head out for our long drive. Our bus driver, Surinder, is truly superhuman. I don’t know how he does it! Because we arrived so late we hit big time traffic, add the rain and it took more than 90 minutes to get from the airport to a place where there was less traffic. The rain let up a bit, and quite honestly we were hopeful it would be an air-cleansing rain. But it made for an extra long bus ride to Agra and our Oberoi Hotel notoriously magical hotel near the Taj Mahal. I’m going to go on the early 6AM tour tomorrow morning because Tina said it was the best time for photos. Jim will join me for the main tour of the Taj Mahal later that morning.

We have two nights in Agra.

Today, we met our new tour guides and history teachers Duber and Rishi and checked in to our hotel where we threw down our bags and ordered room service. I stripped out of my dirty clothes ran a bath and meditated. After a remarkable dinner we collapsed and slept hard! Next bog our magical Taj Mahal and Massive Red Fort experience, hopefully on the Friday’s bus trip from Agra to Jaipur.

India Tour begins Today.

We had a little drama at the Bangkok airport before our 4.5 hour flight to Delhi. We arrived early to avoid the late afternoon/evening commute traffic and found the lounge to relax before our flight. Our plane had not been assigned a gate so we waited for our gate to appear on the video departures list. Unfortunately, it never did. Jim got up to look and didn’t think to ask the women at the counter. It’s an extension of the “never ask directions” guy thing. I felt uneasy because our flight was an hour away from leaving, so I went up to talk with her. She looked at the list and exclaimed: “Oh! Your gate has changed and you must head there immediately.” I scooped up Jim and our stuff. The gate was quite a distance away including an elevator and a tram. However, we ran into a nice Indian man and his Mom who were on our flight and he guided us on the way. We arrived at our gate about 10 minutes before boarding began.

We left Bangkok after 8 PM and it was fun watching the plane icon on the map of the world heading to places and over oceans and seas that were new to us.

Navigating customs in India was easy. In fact, because we are seniors, we didn’t even have to have our pictures taken or give our fingerprints (as we had to in Thailand). Once in the main terminal we easily connected with our Tauck Tours guide, who presented us with a Lai of daisies. We were so glad to see him because even at midnight the Delhi Airport chaos swirled around us as we were guided to where our car was waiting.

Delhi is the world’s second largest city, with over 29 million inhabitants. Only Tokyo is larger. Even in the middle of the night, the sounds of honking are constant. Our guide told us Indians navigating the roads of Delhi need 4 things: good horn, good brakes, good driver and good luck. Jim’s strong backseat driver tendencies made the journey from the airport to our hotel challenging, and he eventually just closed his eyes and meditated.

Our hotel (The Leela Palace) is in New Delhi, the federal administrative district on the south side of Delhi. New Delhi has less than 500,000 people and is much quieter. We entered the hotel gates and first had to stop to have our trunk checked for security. Security was higher than usual because later that morning in New Delhi was the big 75th Celebration of India’s Republic Day, marking the day India’s post-colonial Constitution took effect. The celebration mixes prayer and a parade focusing on military power, cultural traditions and India’s leading citizens.

By the time we were in our room and in bed it was 2:30 AM and we were very tired.

We woke up on our own the next morning and had a fantastic breakfast and watched some of the parade on TV. I immediately experimented with local foods. The Chefs loved that I was so willing to try the unusual things and wanted to bring me more. The intricate taste of the homemade Chai Tea that was served made having coffee totally unnecessary for me. Clearly breakfast was going to be our daily super meal.

The hotel staff is abundant, friendly, and very attentive. Everyone wants to converse and help us with anything we need.

After breakfast we explored the beautiful building, the art and the grounds. We found the spa, and the roof-top swimming pool (it’s delightfully warm!) and then decided to go for a swim.

Even though Delhi is the world’s second largest city, you can’t see it because the air pollution is so consistently poor, especially in the winter. We were warned about it, but it’s impossible to imagine until you’re in it. This really should be a top focus of the government here. We were told by an Austrian factory manager visiting the hotel for a weekend respite that people who live their whole lives in Delhi lose 15 years of life expectancy because of the air pollution. For a country as large and resource rich as India that is unacceptable. India is a very young country, with a very old, diverse mix of cultures, that is still recovering from centuries of colonial rule by the Mughals beginning in 1526 and then by the British (who formally took over the country from the East India Company in 1857) and then ended its colonial government in 1947.

Our first day had the worst air pollution of our visit. Visibility was less than 1 mile. After swimming 20 laps, I definitely noticed that I had difficulty breathing. Yesterday was much better because a breeze kicked up, we could see the sky and probably about 3 miles around the hotel and I could swim 30 laps without any difficulty. Today it appears that the winds have stilled again and the bad pollution is back although not as bad as the first day.

We only did one short walk outside the hotel grounds (to a nearby shopping mall), and we just aren’t moved to do much exploring on our own. Instead, we are pampering ourselves and eating wonderful food at the hotel’s three restaurants. Our first night we ate at the Japanese restaurant, last night we ate at the European restaurant and tonight our 20-person tour group will eat together at the Indian restaurant. We’ve met a few people from our tour group already and we are looking forward to meeting the rest this afternoon.

Last night before dinner we watched the men’s doubles match featuring India’s Rohan Bobanna who had made many finals but never won a Grand Slam final. He finally won one last night at the age of 43, the oldest person ever to win a Tennis Grand Slam Final.

Our tour group gathers at 1:30 today and then we head out for our first group tour of Delhi, including Gandhi’s Smriti (assassination site).

We are both finishing the book, “Freedom at Midnight”, recommended to us by our dear friend Richard Wortley. The book was the used to create the script for the Oscar winning movie “Gandhi”, but has so much more information and is beautifully written. We both love reading books about the areas we are visiting while we are here; as I read I can feel the energy of the book come alive.

Well rested and well fed, today we begin our 18 day trip of India!

Bangkok: Temples, Food, Raja’s, Jungle & Bikes

The flight from Osaka to Bangkok was easy. The Osaka airport is relatively new but not very spacious. But no matter, we made it to our gate easily after walking through the very popular tax-free shopping area. It was our first time flying Thai Airways and the service was quite good. Flight attendants wear traditional, colorful clothing. They were very concerned about a bumpy flight and worked super hard to serve everyone’s meal quickly. It turned out the flight was extremely smooth. After our 10 hour flight to Osaka, the 5.5 hours to Bangkok seemed like nothing. Going through customs was easy. Jim had to carry his walking sticks because security made him use them in the airport so we could carry them on. So we were escorted a faster line after arrival to make our transit easier. We decided to preorder a driver to our hotel from the airport for this part of the journey instead of mass transit because we were arriving so late. The cost was very reasonable and it’s hot here, so It was a good choice.

Leaving the airport you are greeted by many of biggest billboards we have ever seen, easily four times larger than typical billboards.

We chose the So/Bangkok Hotel because of the location next to a Lumphini Park (a medium sized park surrounded by 30-40 story residential and office buildings), and it’s easy access to transit. It was a good choice. Bangkok is a huge city with a population over 11,000,000. Traffic is terrible most of the time, construction is happening everywhere and the trains and subways are packed. In short, it’s a very busy place! On the flight from Osaka we listened to a well-timed Econ/Talk podcast that talked about many things including the next 100 years of growth of the world economy which guest economist believes will be centered in India and S.E. Asia. You definitely sense that dynamic here.

Because we arrived late, they didn’t have the room we booked and ended up in a room with 2 twin beds, but they assured us we would be upgraded the next day. We were pretty exhausted so it didn’t make much difference. The hotel is a bit noisy here, because there is a very busy road between it and the park, but I came prepared with silicone ear plugs for both of us. They make all the difference to mask out the traffic noises when you’re trying to sleep.

On our first day, after a breakfast fit for a Queen and King (complete with Thai soups, omelettes, breads, fruit smoothies and too much to even try) we decided to explore the park and the local “skytrain” elevated transit to visit Raja’s Fashions. Robert Scales, our new friend we met in Osaka, suggested we go there to get clothes made. We needed to get Jim a light weight sports coat for India and we thought we would do that in India, but the timing seemed better here in Bangkok. Raja’s is a multi-generation family-owned business and just lovely. They measured Jim and we picked out our fabric and while we were there we met two other couples from Seattle who were very familiar with Dick’s. We exchanged cards and will meet again in Seattle! The farther away we get from home the world seems smaller!

After our shopping we went to one of the many nearby malls and explored the food court. There were so many choices of local delectable Thai foods. It was amazing and overwhelming! And the prices are extremely reasonable. With our mouths a bit on fire, we decided we “needed” some ice cream to finish up and fortunately there was a a sit down Swenson’s Ice Cream Parlor in the food court. Yum!

There is the usual collection of American brands: McDonald’s, Burger King, Dominos, Crispy Cream (donuts are good here!). And the prices are cheap. $5.85 for a Big Mac combo meal.

Returning to the hotel after lunch we moved to our upgraded room. What an upgrade! It’s a huge corner room with amazing views in two directions. Then it was time to head to the pool. Bangkok hotels are famous for their rooftop pools. Ours was on the 10th floor, not on the rooftop, but because it faced the park it still had great views of the city.

Another must do in Bangkok is enjoying the spas and getting a Thai massage. We did ours at the hotel. It was quite reasonable and really nicely done. To end our first day we grabbed a snack at another must-do in Bangkok: the roof top bar. We were early and I’m guessing this place really hits its peak about midnight and has a very young vibe. Every tall hotel has one of these. I think we have passed our roof top bar phase, but it was a nice experience with a good view and it gave us time to use Google and learn more about the economic history of Thailand. The internet can be so amazing. Here we were sitting at a roof top bar, sipping a gin and tonic and learning so much about Bangkok and Thailand. The modern world is such an amazing place. So much is possible if humanity can just avoid war. Thailand has done a good job of that. They aren’t invaders and haven’t been invaded since the 1800’s and in general Thailand’s leaders have chosen collaboration and trade instead of plunder. So today Thailand is prospering and growing. However, there is definitely a dark side to Thailand that focus on sex and prostitution in parts of the country. Definitely a Yin/yang.

We’ve signed up for a couple of tours and the second day we did a “Temples, Palace and Canal” Tour. Our guide, Angelo, met us at the hotel and guided us through a full day of spiritual sharing, history, conversation and shared growth and experiences. We definitely could not have navigated all the visits in one day without a guide like Angelo. He coordinated the driver and our favorite part (the “James Bond Boat” (featured in “The Man With the Golden Gun”) through the canal and water way system that is like the one in Venice but much larger.

We visited the three large temples in Bangkok throughout the day. Wat Phra Kaew, Wat Arun, and Wat Pho. They are each unique and Angelo shared his Buddhist knowledge as we learned about each. We “talked story” as they say in Hawaii about traditional Buddhist beliefs and prayers. Along our journey Angelo made sure we were well hydrated, sprayed our hands with disinfectant, gave us treats (I especially like the Thai taco) and made sure we had got great photographs at all the key locations.

Our favorite part was getting onto the water and going through some of the locks of the canal system. We had to wait outside each lock to enter the canals because there was a large tidal surge coming from the Gulf of Thailand (the river tides in Bangkok can vary up to 14 feet because Bangkok is not far from the ocean).

Our final Temple visit was the giant golden Buddha laying on its side. It’s quite spectacular.

Back at the hotel we rested a bit before heading out for Jim’s fitting. This time we took the Metro (suggested by Angelo) instead of walking through the park to the elevated train. The trains and Metro were packed because it was peak commuting time. But we arrived at our appointment on time and they made the fitting improvements so that they could finish the sport coat by Thursday.

We hoped to grab a quick dinner in the Siam district before heading back. Unfortunately the recommended restaurant was closed. At this point it was 7:30, we were hungry, this area is definitely seedier, so we took the train back to our district and grabbed a quick bite at a local restaurant near the train station before heading to the metro and back to our hotel.

So, an extremely full day two came to an end.

Bike tour of the farm island: Our second full day in Bangkok was quite a contrast from our first. A driver took us by car from our hotel to the beginning of our “jungle bike tour” on a small island near the port of Bangkok. It’s mostly a manmade island that used to be an isthmus. It’s now built up and sea walls protect it from flooding. We met our guide “Vee” and 8 other bike tourists, then walked to a small boat dock on the Chaophraya River through a poorer part of Bangkok and took a short water taxi ride to the “jungle” Island. I’m just OK at bike riding, but as “admiral of atmosphere” I thought this would be something Jim would appreciate and our friends Kaysi and Stephen said it was a good excursion. But, meandering through narrow paths sharp turns of the paths was challenging for me. The bike through the nice park, and quiet roads, was much easier. It was quite a different experience, but well worth it.

We saw several large monitor lizards and learned about the “suicide/murder” tree that produces a poison seed that looks like a small coconut and has no antidote. It grows wild throughout SE Asia. For a completely different culinary experience, we stopped briefly at a roadside table for the best mango and sticky rice we’ve ever had! These guided tours are great at finding the local food gems.

Other tidbits:

There are only 3 seasons in Bangkok: Winter/Summer/Rainy. Winter is the coolest season, with highs in the high 80’s and low 90’s, but it didn’t feel as hot as we thought it would. We rarely saw the sun much and never saw any stars. We didn’t get rain, because this is the dry season

The people are delightful. Thai people smile a lot, and are very friendly. Bangkok is modern but still growing quickly with lots of construction sites all around the city. There are at least 6 tall buildings going up in the immediate vicinity of our hotel. What appeared to be a hot tub was no warmer than the pool, which was not warm. It was cold.

No bugs they are definitely spraying here.

As a marketing person, I’m always interested in the ads. No financial ads. The big billboard near our hotel is really pushing Dior red lipstick (definitely making me want to use my red lipstick) Samsung phones, cars and IKEA with a smattering of other things.

Thursday is our last day and it’s a transition day. We will pack, pick up Jim’s sport coat and do a little final exploring before heading to the airport for a 10pm departure on our 4-hour flight to Delhi. The next blog will be from India!

Arrived in India:

We arrived in India last night for the main course of our travels. Our Tauck pick up was super smooth and boy did we need the help navigating the airport chaos. The past week has been wonderful but we are excited for our India Adventure.